11 years and hoping for many more

Yikes!! We forgot our own anniversary!! Why ar?? After 10 years, you stop counting?? Ke we are enjoying things too much that time does not matter? Haha, anything to excuse the fact that we are getting old and forgetting anniversary dates is part of the parcel of aging...huhuhu...

Anyway, Aisyah reminded us on the eve of 18/10 by handing us her pathetic sweet home-made card that can only be made by Aisyah which only forces me to make spontaneous last minute plans to sort-of celebrate the day..hehehe..

I decided to scrape the 3 open-houses that I'm supposed to go to, much to the secret delight of hubs.. We had a late lunch lunch at Marche. Coincidentally, the kids are staying over at my sis in law's while the older 2 are at Atuk's. Ironic, I say!

And later at nite, we enjoyed the spa at Andara in Holiday Inn Glenmarie.. Cik Mur, u ols! Like this I want to have Anniversary everyday...Can ar??

On a more serious note, 11 years has been mostly blissful..We've had our ups and downs...but that's expected. Aku nak jadi macam Mak and Abah!!

I remember asking Mak when I was younger and asking stupid questions was permitted.." Mak, mak tak boring ke dah bertahun-tahun duduk dengan Abah?" Tak bosan ker? Dah lama-lama kahwin nak dekat 30 tahun sayang lagi ke??" And Mak jawab "Masa mula-mula kahwin memang sayang dan cinta tapi bila dah bertahun-tahun sayang dan cinta ada lagi tapi dah bertambah pulak dengan kesian,belas, ehsan, memahami" Which I think is more than love...It's being compassionate, forgiving and understanding the closest person to you. Things that are hard to do but you do because you love....Best kan??